Men Are from Mars.....
I know my husband since Oct. of 1982. I've been in an intimate relationship with him for 29 years and married to him for 27 and sometimes I haven't the foggiest idea who he is. He's like a beautiful being from another planet that has come into my life to give me more than I could ever have imagined. He loves me amazingly. He believes in me and my abilities - often some steps ahead of how much I can believe in myself. He is so known to me and yet - sometimes I'm almost breathless with the knowledge that how this happened - how we finally found each other is like some kind of play Directed by Someone beyond thought.
Now how does that sound coming from am a total proponent in the belief that we create our own lives? But I can't quite wrap myself around having created so amazingly while being unaware that I was doing it. How did it happen? Am I really this powerful? Is he?Does anyone else feel this way? Do I feel this way because the contrast with my former life and relationship is so great?
After reading Maia's post on this topic, I get really confused because she is explaining things about our relationship in a way that seems mystical and yet it has always seemed so easy.
ReplyDeleteI think of mystical as being hard or difficult because it doesn't seem like something that I have control of or I can make happen. In contrast, our relationship has been like a walk in the park, a constantly changing new, beautiful park, gentle, easy, lot's of new experiences.
The question is did we make that happen?, Are we just lucky to have it happen? or is there some mystical force that is causing this to happen? Yes, we are both interested in personal and spiritual growth but I think it takes more than that and maybe that's were the personal life coaching comes in.